https://bdsmwiki.info/index.php?title=Emergency_Response&feed=atom&action=historyEmergency Response - Revision history2024-03-28T13:40:33ZRevision history for this page on the wikiMediaWiki 1.23.17https://bdsmwiki.info/index.php?title=Emergency_Response&diff=5409&oldid=prevAdmin: /* Conflict Investigation */2014-09-30T19:36:00Z<p><span dir="auto"><span class="autocomment">Conflict Investigation</span></span></p>
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<tr><td class='diff-marker'> </td><td style="background-color: #f9f9f9; color: #333333; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #e6e6e6; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div>Be aware that people lie and remember things differently without realizing it, they don't even mean to, memory is faulty and is strongly affected by ego (both pain and pride), especially concerning emotionally charged issues like consent violations that challenge reputation.</div></td><td class='diff-marker'> </td><td style="background-color: #f9f9f9; color: #333333; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #e6e6e6; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div>Be aware that people lie and remember things differently without realizing it, they don't even mean to, memory is faulty and is strongly affected by ego (both pain and pride), especially concerning emotionally charged issues like consent violations that challenge reputation.</div></td></tr>
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</table>Adminhttps://bdsmwiki.info/index.php?title=Emergency_Response&diff=5408&oldid=prevAdmin: /* Suggested DM Protocol for reported consent violations */2014-09-30T19:31:54Z<p><span dir="auto"><span class="autocomment">Suggested DM Protocol for reported consent violations</span></span></p>
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<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;"></ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;">Did you tell the person that they violated your consent? If not, why not?</ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;"></ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;">Would you like the opportunity to discuss this with a third party present with the accused? If not, why not?</ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;"></ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;">What would you like to see done to help ensure this doesn't happen again?</ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;"></ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;">Is there anything we can do to make you feel more comfortable?</ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;"></ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;">=== Conflict Investigation ===</ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;"></ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;">Be aware that people lie and remember things differently without realizing it, they don't even mean to, memory is faulty and is strongly affected by ego (both pain and pride), especially concerning emotionally charged issues like consent violations that challenge reputation.</ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;"></ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;">Interview witnesses separately, minimize contact between witnesses, accused and accuser whenever possible, the more they talk the more the story will change from what actually occurred.</ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;"></ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;">Collect hard evidence whenever possible, avoid hearsay whenever possible.</ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;"></ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;">Do not seek to establish guilt or innocence, avoid leading questions. Focus on facts not generalizations and feelings.</ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;"></ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;">Watch body language but be aware emotions may run high; being upset does not indicate guilt or innocence. It is normal to be upset when such an accusation comes to light.</ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;"></ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;">Watch for inconsistencies with stories.</ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;"></ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;">Investigate sooner rather than later, this allows more time for parties to communicate and for story rehearsal which can provide a poor resolution.</ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;"></ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;">Address the situation promptly, the longer it sits, the worse the potential for an ethical outcome based on facts.</ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;"></ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;">Conflict Resolution</ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;"></ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;">Ensure a neutral third party mediator is present.</ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;"></ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;">Do not record the mediation.</ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;"></ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;">Let the accuser state their beliefs and feelings uninterrupted.</ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;"></ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;">Allow the accused to respond to and address the accusations.</ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;"></ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;">Assess the information.</ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;"></ins></div></td></tr>
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<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;">In the event of a clear [[consent]] violation of a negotiated [[hard limit]] or ignoring of a [[safeword]] without any sort of remorse or alternatively, delusional denial of events that are well documented by supporting objective evidence, the accused becomes banned from the venue for a grievous violation of house rules.</ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;"></ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;">In the event of a positive resolution with or without a minor violation of the accused or accuser where satisfaction is met on both sides the event is documented for future reference but no additional penalty is applied. It is appropriate for apologies to be given when warranted.</ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;"></ins></div></td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color:black; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;">In the event of an unsatisfactory situation on the parts of the accused and the accuser the owners will be notified and left to make an executive determination. Situations such as repeat and frequency of violations, severity of violations, remorse, intent and other such factors should be considered in this decision.</ins></div></td></tr>
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<p><b>New page</b></p><div>Emergency volunteers and rescue teams at [[BDSM]] [[events]] ensure public safety and health by addressing different emergencies. Some of these individuals exist solely for addressing certain types of emergencies whilst others deal with ad hoc emergencies as part of their normal responsibilities.<br />
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Typical Members of emergency teams include [[DM]]s and [[EMT]]s, though when qualified personnel are lacking, anyone willing to take charge in an emergency situation is better than no one taking charge in an emergency situation.<br />
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''Below are some suggested techniques for emergency responses for typical BDSM events, please feel free to take these procedures in part or whole and adapt to your event or local law.<br />
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== Suggested [[DM]] Protocol for Medical Emergencies ==<br />
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* Assess the situation, be aware of [[endorphin shock]].<br />
** Direct the removal of victim from scene (i.e. suspension/bondage)<br />
** Use a spineboard to help assist in the removal of a suspension to take pressure off of the [[bottom]].<br />
* DM activates the EMT staff, if a serious emergency, through use of a whistle<br />
* DM acquires info from scene [[Top]]/bottom/witnesses and passes that information to EMT staff<br />
** What happened?<br />
** Is this a "normal" reaction?<br />
** Any known medical issues (pacemaker, seizures, etc)<br />
** Age?<br />
** Real name (if available)?<br />
* DM starts crowd control and clears path to the emergency medical area<br />
* Assistant EMT takes emergency bags to med room<br />
* DM offers assistance to EMT's if necessary/move injured to medical area<br />
* DM escorts scene Top to medical area<br />
* DM secures medical area and crowd control of medical area<br />
* DM follows EMT's guidance/direction<br />
* If outside medical response is needed, the Head DM informs Facility owner. Head DM anounces all play suspended and to prepare for arrival of emergency services.<br />
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== Suggested Expectations of house [[EMT]]s and Medical Staff == <br />
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All personnel who have been identified as EMT’s and volunteer their time shall:<br />
* Be trained and evaluated in issues involving over stimulation of the Parasympathetic nervous system.<br />
* Be trained in other problems and injuries with regards to injuries regarding the BDSM lifestyle.<br />
* Be responsible for understanding [[Endorphin Shock]].<br />
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In the event of a medical emergency reported by a DM the EMT (Emergency Medical Technician) shall:<br />
* Respond to the DM’s direction and evaluate the patient in the following manner;<br />
** Immediately observe the patient as for the level of consciousness, utilizing the Glasgow Coma Scale (GCS). <br />
** Evaluate the patient’s skin color temperature and moisture, pulse rate and respiratory rate. If skin condition is observed as diaphoretic, pale, a GCS less than 11 a respiratory rate less than 8 or greater than 24 the EMT will begin assisting ventilation via Bag Valve Mask.<br />
** If this evaluation is found that the pulse, respirations and skin color is found within normal limits however with the patient’s mental status is less A&O x 3 (Alert and Orientated to Person, Place Time and Event) and a GCS less 13 (EO 3; VR 4; MR 6) the patient shall be placed on a Non-Rebreathing mask with 12 to 15 LPM of Oxygen. <br />
** If the patient mental status does not improve within 90 seconds from the time O2 is placed on the patient; 911 shall be contacted by the Head DM and ambulance requested for a patient with an Altered Mental Status. The patient shall then be removed from the play area for further evaluation.<br />
* If the first evaluation results in a GCS of greater than 11 skin color, pulse and respirations found to be with in normal limits the EMT shall continue to evaluate the patient’s condition. If within 45 seconds the patient’s has not changed the patient shall be removed from the play area for further observation and evaluation.<br />
* Within 45 seconds from the first evaluation the EMT shall re-evaluate the patient for GCS, Skin condition pulse and respiratory rate. If all vital signs that have found to return to normal and the patient’s mental status has returned to A&O x 4 (Alert and Orientated to Person, Place Time and Event) the patient shall be released from further treatment of the EMT however restricted from further play for a minimum of 24 hours.<br />
* Any other injury reported to the EMT shall be evaluated and treated as detailed in Local Area Department of Heath Bureau of EMS BLS Protocols.<br />
* If an ambulance is requested the EMT in charge of patient care shall coordinate all treatment provided and report all information to the responding ambulance crew.<br />
* Both the DM and EMT in charge shall generate a report as to the nature of the incident. This report shall include all actions taken by the DM, EMT treatment provided and other people who were involved with the incident. This report shall remain strictly confidential and contain the following data:<br />
**Reporting Staff<br />
**Accident Location<br />
**Victim/Person of Interest<br />
**Age<br />
**Date/Time<br />
**Witness(es) <br />
**Detailed description of events (include times and locations)<br />
**Describe Injuries and effects in detail<br />
**Name and address of Physician<br />
**Name and address of Hospital<br />
**Comments of staff/witnesses<br />
* All EMT’s and DM’s shall be bound by the laws and policies as detailed in the [http://www.hhs.gov/ocr/privacy/hipaa/understanding/summary/ Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act] (HIPPA/USA) or other applicable local law.<br />
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== Suggested Protocol for encountering Law Enforcement ==<br />
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The [[DM]] on site shall...<br />
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* Inform the Head DM, Event Staff, Venue Owners and attendees that Law Enforcement is en route/present and play is suspended.<br />
* Law Enforcement Entry is by Warrant or Event Board/Owner approval only.<br />
* Be professional when encountering Law Enforcement Agents.<br />
* Get Board member, do not allow Law Enforcement inside or unattended within the limits of your authority, do not invite them in or allow sight into the venue.<br />
* Cooperate, but do not volunteer information. <br />
* Do not use language that assumes any liability.<br />
* Do not lie to Law Enforcement.<br />
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