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A protector is a person who escorts and/or watches over a [[charge]] to ensure that the other is safe, exact duties will vary based upon protection negotiations.  
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A protector is a person who escorts and/or watches over a [[Charge]] to ensure that the other is safe, exact duties will vary based upon protection negotiations.
  
 
== Potential duties of a protector ==
 
== Potential duties of a protector ==
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A protector might:
 
A protector might:
  
* Attend events and introduce the charge as such to others.
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*Attend events and introduce the charge as such to others.
* Utilize a collar of protection or otherwise ward off unwanted advances from others that make the charge uncomfortable.
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*Utilize a collar of protection or otherwise ward off unwanted advances from others that make the charge uncomfortable.
* Negotiate scenes on behalf of the charge after intimately understanding their wants, needs and limitations.
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*Negotiate scenes on behalf of the charge after intimately understanding their wants, needs and limitations.
* Give or deny permissions for a charge to have specific play partners.
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*Give or deny permissions for a charge to have specific play partners.
* Set limits on the charge for amount and types of play to avoid or mitigate the effects of [[frenzy]].
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*Set limits on the charge for amount and types of play to avoid or mitigate the effects of [[Frenzy]].
* Monitor scenes the charge engages in as if they were a [[DM]].
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*Monitor scenes the charge engages in as if they were a [[DM]].
* Provide demonstrations, advice, or [[mentor| mentoring]] guidance for the charge.
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*Provide demonstrations, advice, or [[Mentor|mentoring]] guidance for the charge.
* Provide a transition period (usually 2-4 weeks) as a service dominant to a slave in their leather family that has recently become unowned for any number of reasons.
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*Provide a transition period (usually 2-4 weeks) as a service dominant to a slave in their leather family that has recently become unowned for any number of reasons.
  
 
The inclusion of these elements is usually left to express negotiation and agreement between the parties. A Protector-charge relationship generally is not expected to last for a long term, but generally will often last for one or several months depending upon the needs of the charge.
 
The inclusion of these elements is usually left to express negotiation and agreement between the parties. A Protector-charge relationship generally is not expected to last for a long term, but generally will often last for one or several months depending upon the needs of the charge.
  
[[Category:Non-Binary Status Roles]]
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[[Category:Non-Binary Status Roles|Non-Binary_Status_Roles]][[Category:Relationships]]

Revision as of 16:31, 29 March 2014

A protector is a person who escorts and/or watches over a Charge to ensure that the other is safe, exact duties will vary based upon protection negotiations.

Potential duties of a protector

A protector might:

  • Attend events and introduce the charge as such to others.
  • Utilize a collar of protection or otherwise ward off unwanted advances from others that make the charge uncomfortable.
  • Negotiate scenes on behalf of the charge after intimately understanding their wants, needs and limitations.
  • Give or deny permissions for a charge to have specific play partners.
  • Set limits on the charge for amount and types of play to avoid or mitigate the effects of Frenzy.
  • Monitor scenes the charge engages in as if they were a DM.
  • Provide demonstrations, advice, or mentoring guidance for the charge.
  • Provide a transition period (usually 2-4 weeks) as a service dominant to a slave in their leather family that has recently become unowned for any number of reasons.

The inclusion of these elements is usually left to express negotiation and agreement between the parties. A Protector-charge relationship generally is not expected to last for a long term, but generally will often last for one or several months depending upon the needs of the charge.