Four pillars
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The four pillars is a Relationship dynamic theory in BDSM proposed by LT Morrison in the "Devil in the Details" series.
From this work the following ideas are extrapolated:
For positive relations to exist/endure in an intimate sense it requires the support of (and can be measured by) the health of four pillars:
- Intimacy
- Affection
- Communication/Honesty
- Sex
These pillars must be continually inspected and reinforced by the participants of a relationship is to prosper.