WIITWD
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WIITWD is primarily an internet based acronym that sometimes is used as a replacement for the more narrow term BDSM. WIITWD is a more all encompassing statement and is often more comfortable for those that prefer to defy definition of their lives.
Criticisms
WIITWD does indeed defy definition, and therefore doesn't translate much understanding and greatly limits the amount of meaningful communication that can be understood by invoking the concept.